Let’s talk resolutions

It’s that time of year again…when we think of all the things we’d like to change, start or do over in the new year. I’m infamous for this…I believe some of my last years resolutions were to learn to drive and learn Spanish…neither of which I have done and I doubt I’ll accomplish by tonight.

But are New Year’s Resolutions really necessary…I’m starting to think NO, for the simple fact that I never keep them…and I’m still standing. Am I going to make a few this year? Absolutely, it’s a tradition. So let’s go over the few I’m bound to make and break:

Go to the gym: I mean we are already paying for it, so may as well use it. This has to to be my all time most made and never kept resolution. And while it should be the most easiest (I mean it’s only an hour out of my day, but still so hard to squeeze in). So this year, here is to a more fit and healthier us🥂!

Learn Spanish (the language and to dance 💃🏻 ): This, you would think should be cake, I mean my dad is Hispanic, my husband is Hispanic…so what’s the issue here? I always feel self conscious when it comes to my Hispanic side. I have zero confidence in myself even if I know how to say something. And forget dancing, I feel like an idiot with two left feet with H, he danced competitively and makes me so nervous and uncomfortable. I mentioned that I wanted to take lessons with a professional but he axed that idea. So for now it’s just my two left feet and a ton of liquid courage for me.

Acquire another stamp on our passports✈: We have never traveled out of the country together. So I’m really excited to plan a trip, I’m thinking someplace warm.

Plan a wedding anniversary fit for a king: It’s no secret, I have been down the wedding aisle more than once. I’ve had both civil ceremonies and a grand party. But for H is this is his first and only marriage and I want him to have the wedding experience he deserves. So I’m making a resolution to make sure he has that.

The year has been a bit of a rocky one for me, I’ve learned a lot about myself over the past 12 months and had some scary (almost going to jail) and incredible (marrying the love of my life) moments. I have hope that 2020 is going to be OUR year. It’s a new beginning and a fresh start for us both. So here’s to a brand new year, it can only go up from here 🥂.

I wish everyone a happy and prosperous new year, see you in 2020.

Do you have any resolutions you are planning on making or breaking?