When going out with a group of friends, what’s the best way to handle the check?

Kelsy M. Bronx, New York

The best way is to discuss it before hand and not at the table.

There is nothing wrong with, if as a group you prefer to pay for own tabs. I feel that is probably the fairest way to do it. Just make sure you let your server know before ordering. It makes it easier on them.

There isn’t anything wrong with splitting the bill evenly either (as long as it was agreed upon before hand). But I will say, you shouldn’t have someone else pay for your steak and tequila when they had a garden salad and a glass of wine. So be mindful when splitting the check.

When I’m on a really tight budget, sometimes it’s hard for me to go out with a group as that bill can be unpredictable, a $400 tab can give a person a heart attack (FYI, it came out to about $80 pp including tip…but still). So what I wind up doing is letting everyone that I will be stopping by for a drink or two, but not staying. This way the group knows to not include me in anticipation of paying the bill. I get to see my friends, show support for the event and not kill my wallet.

Honestly, I think Brunch was the best social event ever created. I mean you go, pay a set price for an entree and UNLIMITED drinks 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂 for a specific amount of time. Good for your wallet, good for your social life and friendships, probably bad for your liver so please drink responsibly and never drive.

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